You want a boyfriend, but when it comes to modern dating, it’s never exactly easy figuring out if the guy you’re seeing is on the same page. So how can you tell if you’re headed toward a relationship or remaining casual? Watch out for these 12 signs that he only sees you as a hookup buddy and nothing more:
1. HE REFUSES TO PUT A LABEL ON ANYTHING
If he doesn’t want to define the relationship, there’s a reason. Guys who actually want to be with you will say something. They won’t hide their feelings, not if they want an actual relationship with you. Men who avoid labels aren’t leaving you clueless. In fact, they are giving you a label—you’re hookup buddies.
2. YOU DON’T TALK ABOUT ANYTHING REAL
When you do have conversations, they’re pretty meaningless. You don’t dive into the big things because he’s not that interested in really knowing you. You’re the girl he sleeps with, not the girl he’s planning to spend the rest of his life with. He keeps your talk simple so that the “relationship” can stay simple too.